tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7878185611242737498.post4547397598697631901..comments2017-03-03T09:07:02.916-05:00Comments on Coffee Beans & Daydreams: Relationships are hard... and stuffAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08773003983330097775noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7878185611242737498.post-38057085585033884612013-09-12T21:06:03.375-04:002013-09-12T21:06:03.375-04:00I agree with you both! Bill, I'm so sorry, I d...I agree with you both! Bill, I'm so sorry, I didn't realize, but yes, at times the other person has no idea until it's too late. That's where the communication comes in. Divorce is definitely hard, especially when there are kids involved.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08773003983330097775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7878185611242737498.post-82164747261924282542013-09-12T13:52:59.103-04:002013-09-12T13:52:59.103-04:00Thank you for the amazing share. Unfortunately fo...Thank you for the amazing share. Unfortunately for me, this tale sounds all to familiar and even more unfortunate my ex-wife never gave us the chance to work on it. It does take work. The excitement of the honeymoon fades and we fall into a role. Without communication those little issues get run through our minds over and over until they become bricks in a wall that is very hard to tear down. Many times one spouse has no clue that it is going on and that there is even a question in the relationship. Bravo to you for caring and working on the relationship. You both deserve praise for being strong enough to see the light. Divorce may seem like the easy way to go but the work that goes into a divorce and how it affects a torn family is much, much harder. Bill Ruddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04450440642502701435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7878185611242737498.post-45455086535382464432013-09-12T10:20:31.047-04:002013-09-12T10:20:31.047-04:00not trying to be anonymous..This is Janellenot trying to be anonymous..This is JanelleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7878185611242737498.post-34915041466955367892013-09-12T10:19:23.385-04:002013-09-12T10:19:23.385-04:00Thanks for your the honesty...I remember when you ...Thanks for your the honesty...I remember when you guys were going through that junk!!!! Praise God, you and Jon saw it through. Marriage is the toughest relationship and the most rewarding relationship there is...God created it...Beautiful as it is...we are never going to be perfect to each other, because we are human. John tells us in 1st John...Perfect love cast out fear...that perfect love come from God's Son..and when the marriage is intertwined with God..much like a braid. IT Works!! We've been through some rough patches ourselves and if more couples would share that honestly..I believe we would have less divorce...thanks for sharing<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com